Volume 08 Issue 01 January 2025
1Defina, 2Dwi Hastuti, 3Istiqlaliyah Muflikhati, 4Risda Rizkillah, 5Siti Zahwa Humaira
1,2,3,4,5Department of Family and Consumer Sciences, IPB University, Jl Raya Dramaga Bogor, West Java, Indonesia
DOI : https://doi.org/10.47191/ijsshr/v8-i1-51Google Scholar Download Pdf
ABSTRACT
Fisherman families experience a number of dynamics in interaction and communication within their families. One of them is the use of language in the family, such as verbal affection and verbal violence. This is in the interaction between husband and wife and parents with children. However, several problems were found, namely verbal violence that occurred to fishermen's families. Therefore, this study aims to analyze the use of language in fishermen's family interactions. Both in the use of forms and examples of verbal violence, as well as the impact of such verbal violence on spouses and children. Data was obtained from filling out a structured questionnaire, which was then interpreted as a method analysis in the results table. The results of the study show that there are several forms of verbal violence found in fishing families against their spouses. Such as degrading, ignoring, humiliating, defaming, hiding, blaming the partner, and threatening. Then, forms of verbal violence against children, such as rejection of love, debasement, perfectionism, pessimistic predictions, unfavorable comparisons, humiliation, cursing or swearing, threats, and sarcasm. The cause of this verbal violence is a lack of communication, interaction, and openness. The impact felt is the emergence of conflicts in the family. Therefore, the use of language in fishermen's families needs to be improved with the verbal use of affection.
KEYWORDS:family communication, verbal affection, verbal violence, language use, fisherman families
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